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Editor:
"Family" this and "family" that. I'm furious at conservative politicians and moral busybodies for the way they're using this perfectly good word today. On the surface, they appear to be defending tradition. But underneath, they're using it as a code word for strong opposition to: women's rights, abortion, equal rights for gays, support for school vouchers and religious education and as a way of saying that some families should be more valued than others.
The so-called "traditional family" is a thing of the past. Less than a quarter of America's 91 million households today are made up of a breadwinner father, stay-at-home mom and two children. The family of today is more likely to be an adoptive family, a single-parent family, a blended or step-family, grandparents raising grandchildren, or an unmarried same-sex or opposite-sex couple with or without children.
The claim that "gays are destroying the family" particularly annoys me. Gay people are not destroying families. In many cases, gays have to go to extraordinary lengths to create their own families. The problems with American families today are problems that originate within those families. There are real problems of divorce, spousal abuse, teen pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases and child abuse in our country. These problems can't be blamed on gays and lesbians.
The self-proclaimed, so-called "moral," right-wing politicians and conservative religious groups need to take a step back and look at what the real problems are and begin to find ways to deal with them rather than using gays and lesbians as scapegoats. It's irresponsible to continue to demonize the gay community for problems that are not theirs.
Alan L. Light
Iowa resident
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